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Your Self-Led Starting Point

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Question 1 of 26

What feels most important for me to know about where you are beginning right now?

Question 2 of 26

What are you currently struggling with most in how you think, respond, choose, communicate, or relate to yourself?

Question 3 of 26

Where in your life do you feel the most distance between how things are now and the woman you are ready to lead yourself into?

Question 4 of 26

What are your main goals for this coaching experience over the next 3 months?

Please include any internal or external shifts you are hoping for, such as how you think, respond, communicate, make decisions, hold boundaries, trust yourself, manage emotions, or move forward in your life.

Question 5 of 26

By the end of these 12 weeks, what would help you know that meaningful progress has been made?

Please describe what you would notice in yourself, your choices, your emotions, your communication, your relationships, your confidence, or the way you lead yourself.

Question 6 of 26

What patterns do you notice yourself repeating most often?

(Select all that apply)
A

Overthinking

B

Second-guessing

C

People-pleasing

D

Self-doubt

E

Emotional reactivity

F

Shutting down

G

Over-explaining

H

Avoiding conflict

I

Difficulty setting boundaries

J

Seeking approval or reassurance

K

Holding back

L

Self-sabotage

M

Saying yes when I mean 'no'

N

Feeling responsible for other people’s emotions

Question 7 of 26

Briefly explain which pattern feels most active for you right now and how it tends to show up.

Question 8 of 26

What types of situations tend to trigger this pattern most often?

Question 9 of 26

When you feel emotionally activated, what do you usually notice first?

(Select all that apply)
A

Racing thoughts

B

Tightness in my body

C

Feeling anxious or unsettled

D

Wanting to fix the situation quickly

E

Wanting to withdraw or shut down

F

Feeling defensive

G

Feeling guilty

H

Feeling afraid of disappointing someone

I

Feeling unsure what I need

J

Feeling like I cannot trust myself

Question 10 of 26

What do you usually do next when this pattern takes over?

Question 11 of 26

What do you think this pattern may be trying to protect you from?

Question 12 of 26

What belief about yourself, others, or relationships do you feel may be connected to this pattern?

Question 13 of 26

Where do you want to trust yourself more right now?

For example, this may be in your decisions, emotions, boundaries, communication, relationships, career, money, identity, or the way you move forward in your life.

Question 14 of 26

Where do you want to feel more self-led in your life?

(Select all that apply)
A

Emotions and reactions

B

Decision-making

C

Boundaries

D

Communication

E

Relationships

F

Career, business, or money

G

Confidence and self-expression

H

Health, body, or energy

I

Home, lifestyle, or daily structure

J

Spirituality or personal growth

K

Purpose, direction, or next chapter

Question 15 of 26

Where do you feel you have been holding yourself back, even if part of you feels ready for more?

Question 16 of 26

What kind of support helps you most when you are working through personal growth?

(Select all that apply)
A

Clear questions that help me reflect

B

Gentle but honest feedback

C

Practical steps and structure

D

Space to process out loud

E

Encouragement and reassurance

F

Accountability and follow-through

G

Time to think before responding

H

A balance of reflection, structure, and action

Question 17 of 26

What do you think could be your biggest obstacle to receiving the full benefit of this coaching experience?

Question 18 of 26

What strengths do you already have that can support you through this process?

Question 19 of 26

Where do you feel you may need extra support, patience, or accountability?

Question 20 of 26

Is there anything else you would like me to know about how you best receive coaching support?

You can also share anything that does not feel helpful, such as feeling rushed, pressured, overly challenged, or given too much at once.

Question 21 of 26

How ready do you feel to participate fully in this coaching experience?

A

I feel very ready and committed

B

I feel ready, but also a little nervous

C

I feel willing, but I know I may need support staying consistent

Question 22 of 26

What do you need from me as your coach throughout this process?

Question 23 of 26

Is there anything you want me to know before we begin working together?

Question 24 of 26

Please rate each area from 1–10.

1 = this area feels very misaligned right now
10 = this area feels deeply aligned, steady, and self-led

Please type your number beside each area.

Emotional well-being:
Self-trust:
Communication:
Boundaries and personal standards:
Romantic relationship or dating:
Family or friendship dynamics:
Career, business, or purpose:
Confidence and self-expression:
Lifestyle, environment, or daily structure:
Identity and the woman I am becoming:

Question 25 of 26

Which area feels most important to focus on first, and why?

Question 26 of 26

If this area improved over the next 12 weeks, what positive ripple effect do you believe it would create in your life?

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